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Tuesday, July 8, 2025

My Kid Asked Me for a Royal Decree … Enter GenAI

Icon-style illustration of a crowned girl representing imaginative play, surrounded by speech bubbles with a chat symbol and a pencil checking a box, symbolizing generative AI and collaborative editing.
Image created with ChatGPT.

Intentionality and GenAI

My recent research has focused on GenAI ethics—particularly transparency, disclosure, and policy. Alongside that, I’ve begun to ask GenAI to assist with more day-to-day tasks. One such moment happened when my daughter asked me to type up a document transferring her queen title to her best friend, making her the head of a council in Legoville.

At first, I thought, Wow, they’re deeply invested in this imaginative world. My next thought: Where do I even start with a royal decree?

We saddled up to the computer, and I opened ChatGPT.


A Royal Request in Legoville

Then I paused—should I model going straight to GenAI for a document? What best practices could I demonstrate here?

We prompted together and then began editing the output. She had many changes to suggest, and our usage of GenAI fell into the category of “getting us started with a template.” The final print out was a modified version of the initial GenAI draft.

I explained to her why I allowed GenAI usaged for this task:


Why I Chose GenAI

1) The usage was for play.
This was a playful exercise. For more serious applications, I might use GenAI to generate a few examples to get me started or produce a fill-in-the-blank worksheet to help gather relevant content. Still, we discussed how using someone else’s words isn’t the same as writing your own. Also, hallucinations were not going to be a deal-breaker for the queen and her head of council. 

2) I had no idea where to begin with royal decrees.
Before GenAI, where would I have gone for inspiration? Microsoft Word templates? A Google search? An encyclopedia? (Yes, we had World Books in our house—sold by a door-to-door salesperson!). Reflecting on those past options helps me better contextualize my usage today and decide how to proceed. If I had modeled a template from one of those outlets, I feel fine modeling a template from GenAI (and thinking through its accuracy).

3) This was not meant to exercise my brain.
If an activity is designed to challenge my thinking, I engage with it directly before turning to GenAI. For me, writing is thinking. I need that cognitive heavy lifting to organize my thoughts. I acknowledge that this could become a shortcut too easily, where we focus on the output instead of the process.

That’s why I’m teaching my daughter to pause and reflect on her use of GenAI. What thinking might she be bypassing? That pause—that reflective moment—is what I want her (and myself) to remember. Outsourcing is a choice, and one we should make thoughtfully.


Reflecting on My Own Usage

As part of this reflective practice, I asked ChatGPT to create an audit of my own usage. In one response, I received a paragraph-style summary of themes and categories. In another, it returned a table with star ratings showing frequency and even trends over time.

One of my favorite uses of “Chatty” (as I sometimes call it) is turning metadata into APA 7 citations. Formatting citations is not where I want or need to spend my mental energy—it’s not a flex I need right now. But I recognize that beginning graduate students do need to spend some brain time here to learn citation mechanics and accuracy. Once they’ve learned the rules, they’ll be better able to spot-check GenAI’s output. I’ve done that work, and I now use GenAI as a citation generator.


The Final Decree

We printed her royal succession and abdication decree and prepared it for ceremonial signing with her best friend. It was only afterward that I said, “Wait—we forgot to disclose our GenAI usage!”

We’ll let it slide this time, as I’m disclosing it here in this broader reflection.


Final Thoughts: Practicing Intentionality

Whether it’s for a queenly transfer of power in Legoville or a professional writing task, I’m trying to model intentionality in GenAI use. I want to emphasize the importance of asking: Why am I using this tool? What am I gaining—and what might I be giving up?

These small pauses are the key to ethical and thoughtful GenAI use.

How do you think about and maintain intentionality in your own GenAI usage?


GenAI Usage Disclosure: After writing a rough draft of this post, I asked ChatGPT to create a list of suggested edits. I then decided which edits to implement. This is another way for me to be intentional in my usage. 

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